The culmulnative book of my life can be modeled as a train. Every day we add to the train. Each experience is added to a cart on the train. Some carts are bigger an heavier. Some carts of full of joy. Other cards are full of suffering. We drag the carts along with us everywhere we go. Every experience we have is seen through lens that is colored by the carts on our train.
Closure is a myth, the cart is always in our train.
Divorce is a myth, spouse is always a cart in the train.
Forgive and forget is a myth, the cart is always in our train.
Our choices influence the carts that we add to our train. Our choices after we add the carts to our train influence the tracks we travel down. Some track have the opportunity to add certain types of carts. Other tracks have the opportunity to add different types of carts.
Each cart is a chapter in the book of our lives.
What choice do I make? What track do I choose to put my train on?
Draw out the train map of your life, symbolise life decision and major choice/decisions/life experiences as switches on the train track.